Proposal: You Want HER to say the "BIG YES"

Proposal: You Want HER to say the "BIG YES"

You’ve made it! You’ve found your person. Once upon a time, you were all about independence, thinking you didn’t need anyone else. Then, out of nowhere, this incredible woman stepped into your life.

She fills in all those little gaps you never knew existed, completing you in ways you never imagined. Through life’s tough moments, she brings a softness that you never knew you needed. Her laughter lights up your world, and you find yourself wanting to protect her, hold her, and journey through life together. She’s not flawless, but her quirks make her uniquely lovable. You can’t picture your life without her.

Now, you’re ready to pop the question, but you’re not sure where to begin or what to do. Don’t worry, I’ve got your back! Let’s dive into some inspiration to make this moment unforgettable.


SHOULD I PROPOSE? The big question on every proposer's mind. Ultimately, only you can answer this question, but there are ways to gather clues.

Pay attention to how she talks about marriage. Does she speak fondly of it or admire happily married couples? Does she value commitment?

Consult her closest friends and family. They might have insights into her feelings about your future together.

Reflect on your own feelings. Make sure you genuinely want to build a life together and not because of external pressures.

HOW SHOULD I PROPOSE? This is where the fun begins! The possibilities are endless, so make it personal and special.

Consider her personality, interests, and your shared history. Here are some ideas to get you started:

  • Arrange a scavenger hunt with clues leading to significant locations or thoughtful gifts.
  • Create a video or photo collage capturing your journey together, ending with your proposal.
  • Choose a meaningful location, like where you had your first date or a place significant to your relationship.
  • Surprise her during a spa day or a special holiday like Valentine’s Day.
  • Create a magical ambiance in your backyard or opt for a memorable public location.

WHAT SHOULD I SAY WHEN I PROPOSE? Prepare your speech in advance, but keep it heartfelt and authentic. Here’s a template to guide you:

"[Full name of your love], you are the most [quality you admire about her] woman I’ve ever met. These [time you’ve been together] have been the [superlative] of my life. With you, I feel [emotion]. I want to [future plans together]. Will you marry me?"

Feel free to include meaningful quotes or phrases, especially if they hold sentimental value for both of you.

WHAT SHOULD I DO DURING MY PROPOSAL? Consider hiring a photographer to capture the moment. Plan your route to the location and practice getting down on one knee.

WHERE SHOULD I PROPOSE? Choose a location based on her interests and your shared memories. Consider adding personal touches like decorations or special arrangements.

DON’T DO THIS DURING YOUR PROPOSAL! Avoid stressing too much, proposing at someone else’s wedding, forgetting the ring, making the speech too long, hiding the ring in food or drinks, proposing via text or email, or forgetting to ask the question outright.

YOU’RE ALL SET You’re armed with all the tools to plan the perfect proposal. Let your love shine through, and remember, this moment is about the two of you. Best of luck!

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